13/2/24 &&& Nothing is set in stone

That is why we need to have the Apple and No Apple mentality.  In the Beginner's mind there are many, in the expert's mind there are a few.

As it is until the actual execution, we are taking So Shin (the Beginner's Mind).

So I am taking it with many options.  Until the form is form and emptiness is emptiness.  The few options...

I am really a "Blind Apek" here.  I listen to you and I listen to Ratu Ina.  You are my eyes when I cannot see.

It is very tempting to tell Lizzie that we have been married for seven years.

If only the future is that certain.  I love Lizzie very much and I don't like to do things behind her back.  I am never a good liar.  I was a good thief but never a liar.

So this mental image keeps going through my mind:

Finally, we get the money.  I will sign a check for RM4 million for her and RM2 million each for Princess and Mopey.  Let it sink in for a week or so, and then I pose this question, "You said personal freedom comes with financial freedom.  Now will you agree if I marry another one?"

That is the million-dollar question.  Honestly, I don't know how will she react.

But my answer will be, "I have been married for seven years."

That is the million-dollar answer.

This next response is the make or break.  "I want you all to meet.  There are THREE of them.  All I married in the past seven years."

Then I arrange for a meeting with the family at our house for tea.  I will pick you all from the One World Hotel and drop you all at the house.

Then I introduced you all to her and said, "You all get to know one another.  Do explain our history together and explain why you[r] were chosen.  Meantime I will be having coffee at One Utama.  I will pick you up for our dinner outside."

Then I send you back to the hotel.  I will bank your money once you open a bank account the next day.  There is a bank next to the One World Hotel.

Then we go to the Religion Department for your conversion (for technicality)  and register for the Marriage Course.  How that works, I don't know.

We will not practice Islam like me and my family.  Only applicable for marriages, deaths, and wealth distribution (if no will).  That is why I will consolidate my wealth in the Employee Providence Fund.  The percentage is clear.

The penthouse and the gym go under 3 names while the car can go under 1 name for convenience.

Otherwise, we park under one estate management company which is not necessary.

That is the reason why I park the money at EPF.  I don't trust an estate management company.  That is also why I don't want many assets.

How does that sound, Ratu Ina?

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