Tuesday, February 13, 2024

13/2/24 At this point, I just go with the flow

 I do it in good faith.  What comes along I just write.  

So based on Ratu Ina's input, the idea is plausible.

All these are the Visioneering Processes.  I am open to suggestions.

At the end of the day, it must satisfy all parties, especially the brides and the parents.

I am easy...  I want to start a family.  At the same time, I want to start with a good note among the House of Sha.

For the honeymoon, we go to Conrad, Koh Samui, Thailand.  They have a private pool. We could spend 5 days including air travel.

These are possibilities.  All depend on money in the bank.  Still, it doesn't hurt to do some visioning.

 For me, once I can imagine it, the things are already real to me.  So in my mind, it already happened.

Like that, I already went *th[ought] (through) the wedding and the honeymoon.  I already puas (contented).  That is how easy I am.

* You too huh?

If you want, we can skip the reception ceremony and stick to only the vow ceremony.  I'm not *[] (sure) if that is what Ratu Ina meant by her intervention.

*You know me, the crowd is not my thing.  So OK, we just do the vow ceremony.  Followed by lunch among the close circle only.

The custom here is only the man recites the vow.  Then I insert the ring and kiss the forehead.  You kiss my hand.  Nothing fancy.  We can exchange vows like we did before just between us.  

I like the for better for worse, for rich for poor, and for health for sickness.  Lizzie and I live by this vow.  That's how we stick together.

It stood the test of time...

I leave it up to you when comes to convincing Mira and Kristina of this plan.  I want to retain a simple life amid the money.

Seriously, Sarah, money doesn't excite me.  It is to keep the family afloat and for us to travel once or twice a [h]ear (year).

Been there done that baby...  I am a simple man, honestly.  Well, I used to subscribe to the Armani, the Rolex, and the Mont Blanc.  They are just that, things.

However, I am not a miser.  We can still fly first class and stay in Conrad.  But as Princess always mentioned, we buy experience, not things.  So we accumulate fond memories.

Well, darling...  This is me warts and all.  After all these years you should know me.  That is why even when we have hundreds of millions, I will take a monthly allowance of RM1k.  Even that I'm sure I cannot finish.  My purse that never runs out of money is Lizzie.  

So if you have been studying my dynamics,  I am the happiest now, when I am poor.  I want to be a Nothing.  You all manage the money.  Let me pursue my ideal.

Avoir!
SJ 4964

  

 

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